Greetings one and all…
It is definitely a winter’s morning in Denver. Snow on the ground. Nippy temps. Snow flurries off and on. A perfect morning to sip coffee and reflect on life. Over the past few weeks I have been in full-blown planning mode for the coming year. Contacting clients, scheduling events, and scheduling time for writing, research, and program creation. Yesterday in the midst of juggling requests from numerous clients, I realized the need to step back and take a breath!
Planned, Purpose-FULL, AND Joy-FULL
I am by nature a planner. Even as a child, I loved nothing better than making a daily list of things to do and then checking them off one by one. Such a feeling of accomplishment! I have even been known to write in a “to do” that I already completed just to have the satisfaction of checking it off the list. You may think this a wee bit obsessive. However, being a planner served me well in corporate America, as a business owner, and as a family caregiver. But I have to admit, I can become too focused on completing tasks, leaving little time to be present to the moment.
Thank goodness for the moments like yesterday when I awaken to the need to make room for Joy in my life. Moments that aren’t planned. Moments that just happen when my heart and soul need a dose of Joy! Maybe you have felt a similar longing for Joy in your life. If so, in those moments, let’s seek to:
- Make Room for JOY—This may sound like a daunting task if you are fully booked from dawn til dark. But by its very nature, Joy doesn’t require a huge block of time. If we are open to Joy, just like a gas that expands to fill a container, Joy has the capacity to fill every void of our being. Joy fills us up!
- BE Spontaneous—Opportunities to experience Joy often arise unexpectedly. Not part of the plan! In those moments, if we are too wedded to the plan, we miss experiencing moments of Joy. As a planner, spontaneity is a personal challenge. In fact, my friends still tease me about a New Year’s resolution made over 20 years ago. I planned to be more spontaneous in the coming year! An obvious contradiction, right? Thus I earned the nickname of Spontane Jane—a characterization I find difficult to embody some days. But, that’s the plan!
- Delight in the Moment—When presenting programs on self care, I often ask those in attendance, “What brings you joy?” The responses reflect another important aspect of Joy. Joy is most often derived from the simple yet sacred moments in life. A cup of hot tea on a bitterly cold morning. The smile of a loved one. The laughter of a child. Snuggling with a beloved pet. We can experience Joy by choosing to be present to the moment—by seeking that which is delight-FULL even in the midst of difficult circumstances.
So today, if you have a list of “to dos” as long as your leg, I invite you to make room for JOY. Be open to the possibility that a moment will bubble up that fills you with Joy. Actually, the invitation entails more than merely being open to the possibility. I invite you to intentionally SEEK moments of Joy today. I have no doubt you will discover people, places, and things that enrich your life beyond measure. En-JOY every moment…jane
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